Let’s face it, when it comes to trying to figure out what women really want, most men are beyond clueless. To most of us, women seem to be these deep, mysteriously, utterly unfathomable creatures. Every time we think we’ve got a good handle on what it is, exactly, that they want, we get our noses rubbed in the sad fact that we actually don’t have any idea. Fortunately, you’re in the right place. We’ll shed some light on a few of the things that women consider to be the most important in their quest for a long term mate.
It should go without saying, but unfortunately, a great many men don’t “get” this. Honesty is a very big deal to women though, and in truth, this is NOT a difficult one to pull off. It’s just a matter of doing what you say you’ll do. Of having or developing a reputation for integrity. Those are good things.
This one’s also something you can improve, given time and the motivation to do so, and you should. Women love intelligence. Remember the phrase from the bible, “the meek shall inherit the earth?” They did, with the rise of the internet. Brainiacs are, in today’s society, what jocks used to be. They’re the new rock stars and women love it. You should make every effort to expand your mind, even as you keep your body fit (which, let’s face it, women also love).
It shouldn’t come as a big surprise, but women love it when their men pay attention to them. Why more men don’t is a big mystery, but if you want to set yourself apart from the pack, and make it much more likely that you’ll be able to win your ex back, then you’ll make it a point to really pay attention to your woman when you’re with her. That means focusing on living in the now, any time you’re together.
It means turning off or ignoring the phone when your buddies text you, or call you up to do something else. That’s powerful, and it send the unmistakable message that you’re really into her. What woman wouldn’t like that? Don’t you like it when women pay lots of attention to you? Of course you do, and it’s the exact same for them.
Let’s face it, most men tend to put women on a pedestal, at least to some degree. The thing is though, women don’t typically ask for that, or even necessarily want it. What they want is a man with a backbone. A man who’s strong and confident enough to stand up for what they believe in, even if that means they don’t always get their way. Women love a challenge. That doesn’t mean that they want you to behave like a jerk, but stand up for yourself and your beliefs, even if it means taking the woman you care about off the pedestal you’ve put her on.
Women almost universally find generosity to be a sexy and desirable trait. A generous man is a giving man. He cares what happens, not just to the people he has a connection with, but to the world at large. Generosity and magnanimity tend to go together. You almost can’t help being magnanimous when you’re generous.
There are many other traits that women find desirable in a mate or long term partner, but if you can develop these traits in yourself, you’ll be miles ahead of most of the rest of the men out there, and stand a really good shot at winning your ex back if you should decide to try.
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